Some people simply like to argue. They like to argue because it makes them feel empowered. Some like to argue because they enjoy the conflict. Some may like to argue because, after the argument is over, there is a sense of “making up” and that helps them feel better about themselves or the relationship.
This isn’t going to help you, however, when it comes time to discussing assisted living with your aging loved one. You don’t want arguments. You want them to listen.
How do you get somebody who is naturally predisposed to being argumentative to sit down and actually listen to what you may have to say about assisted living?
1. Learn as much as you can about the topic first.
Most Americans don’t know very much about assisted living or other elder care options. They have assumptions, but that doesn’t mean they know much about it. The first step you should take before discussing assisted living with an aging loved one is to learn everything you can about assisted living.
Be discerning about where you get your information. The internet is a vast resource of information on almost every topic imaginable, but not all of it is reliable, factual, or dependable.
The best place to go for information regarding assisted living is straight to the source: an assisted living community in your area. Read the content on their website. Look at the blogs. Digest the information about amenities, activities, and benefits they offer.
2. Take a tour of an assisted living facility.
This is the best way to get a hands-on, firsthand experience of assisted living. When you take a tour of a local assisted living facility, you will see the community, get a glimpse at what bedrooms look like, common areas, the entertainment room, the dining facility, perhaps the fitness center, the outdoor grounds, and more.
Plus, you will be able to ask questions, which will help you be even more prepared to confront this topic with an argumentative parent.
3. Ask what the senior thinks about assisted living.
They may have preconceived notions about assisted living. That’s fine. That doesn’t necessarily mean they are right about it, but these are their impressions or their assumptions. The more you learn about those preconceived notions, the easier it is going to be for you to not only understand their objections or argumentative nature but also how to overcome them.
As you see, the best way to combat an argumentative person is to be prepared with accurate information and knowledge about assisted living, the benefits it offers, and why they should consider it at this stage in their life.
Schedule a tour of a local assisted living community today and find out what they provide, and how the facility is set up, and even ask some of the residents about their impressions of life in that community. You may be surprised and inspired by the positive feelings they have about it.
If you or an aging loved one are considering Assisted Living in Maryville, IL, or surrounding areas, please contact the caring staff at Knollwood Retirement Community today at (618) 226-5755
Offering seniors age 65 and older a wealth of amenities to retain as much independence as they are able, with support, in a home-like environment in our supportive living community.
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